Social media lessons from a 70+ year old man!

Beyond all this social media engagement conversation, something really simple happened yesterday that I had to pause and ponder.

My dad bought a pack of oats last month – he was bored with Quaker Oats and wanted to try another brand. So he got a 500gm pack of Bagrry’s Oats. Came home….opened the pack…only to find it having a foul smell. He had checked the expiry date and there was 6 more months left for it to officially expire! It costs below Rs. 100, but instead of just letting it go, he spoke to the retail store where he got it from – for replacement, of course. They refused!

He asked me to check Bagrry’s website online and mail them – he gave me the content of the mail too! I checked the site – there was a contact box – wrote his content and sent it to them. If I’m allowed a mild digression, Bagrry’s even has a customer feedback page titled, ‘Your Blessings‘ – quite cheesy, I know!

Nothing happened for 3 weeks!

pen-nibThen, my dad did what he always, always does, given he is not net savvy…rather, not very keen to get hooked on to it at his age (70+!)…he wrote a letter. Ever since I’ve known him as my dad, he always takes the hand-written letter route – I’ve seen it work fabulously well almost every time, for any purpose!

And, it worked! Bagrry’s sent a manager-type person yesterday, to our home, to apologize for the inconvenience and he replaced the merchandise with a 1kg pack.

I still remember – at some point when I was in school, I was tremendously inspired by my dad’s letter writing skills. I recall writing 2 letters that worked brilliantly – one to Godrej Soaps, asking them to make a musk soap. The second one was to Maggi – asking them to reintroduce my favorite, Lasagna flavored Maggi that they had unceremoniously discontinued way back.

In case of Godrej, I got a letter signed by Tanya Godrej (back then!) telling me that they’d consider my suggestion. Plus, 3 packs of a new soap that they were yet to launch – a cologne variant of Cinthol, which I totally loved! As for Maggi, they sent home a sales representative, who said his company will look into the suggestion and also gave me 12 packs of Maggi free, for the effort!

But one of the best instances I remember is a combined effort – me and my dad together. One of our favorite stories…of all time…is Oscar Wilde’s The Happy Prince. I must have been in class 3 or 4 then and asked my dad if there was an animated version of the story. He said he was not aware of one but told me we could ask Disney! So, we wrote a letter to Walt Disney Corporation, in the US – this was back in the 80s…remember! I recall sealing the airmail envelope, with tons of stamps on it.

I forgot all about it for a few weeks, till we got a response – a hand-written letter from someone I don’t quite recollect the name right now…do not have this letter anymore, unfortunately! But his designation was CEO…something. He thanked us (it was sent in my name, so thanked me!) and said it was a great suggestion. He also said he agreed with us that the beautiful story of Happy Prince would come out alive in Disney’s animation. And that they would consider making a film based on the story.

I went around school showing that letter, but back then, in my little school (in Srirangam, Trichy, if you must know), nobody was aware of what or who Disney was. I don’t know if there was ever a film on The Happy Prince, but that effort…rather, gesture, was enough for me, back then. It was the same thing with Godrej and Maggi too – the gesture mattered more than the action. A hand-written letter takes real effort and shows how serious a customer is, about his cause. Brands better take note of the effort. It does not mean, however, that an email is not as serious – it sure is. But, there are more emails than there are hand-written letters, in these days. So, make your effort stand out, if you want a brand/ company to take a serious note of you.

Now, think about all the brand buzz and brand bashing we see online, across so many sites and tools. It’s quite an overdose, in reality. Bagrry’s did not respond to my online contact – they did, for the letter my dad sent…for all you know, they probably don’t have any process/ person to check responses coming from their website!

The point is…to be alert. This is what we (at Edelman, of course!) sell to our clients as a listening program. Its purpose is merely to be alert and aware of what people are saying about you. They may have stopped saying it using older methods like letters, but they continue to air their opinion…across easier platforms like social networking sites and blogs.

The next point is…to react. To be responsive. Given the sheer numbers, it is perfectly alright to be selectively responsive. But, be responsive. Choose who you want to respond to and do it with passion. Smarter organizations will intelligently substitute this letter/ email business by making available their own outlet…across multiple platforms, so that customers can reach them for whatever reason. This, in essence, is ‘owned media’, that we sell so convincingly to our clients.

Forget the Facebooks and Twitters of this world – removed of all jargon and complexity, this…is social media engagement!

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  • Awesome post... Came across it quite by chance! I spent my childhood in Jamshedpur and used to send quiz questions to Telekids, the children's newspaper supplement of Calcutta based The Telegraph. A lot of those questions got space in the paper and I was, for a bit, the local hero of my class. :)
  • Thanks so much for the reminder about how a thoughtful letter can create lasting change. It was true for Mother Theresa, and Elizabeth Barrett and Robert Browning, and it's still true today!

    I once heard that the physical act of writing is--in itself--cathartic, so write a letter to make yourself feel better and you may be amazed at what happens.

    (Sonja, I agree with the handwritten thank-you notes...they definitely make an impression.)
  • Karthik S
    Sonja: Its fantastic that you taught your son that. It may look old school in this age, but it sure has its value!
  • sonja hall
    great article. When my son was in kindergarten, I wrote 2 letters to alert the school & parents about some things that were going on that were unnacceptable. Because of the formality, they had to respond, and things did get much better for everyone. Later, when my son ran into some turbulence, he asked me to write another "magic letter." However, I refused, because it was more appropriate for him to learn to navigate the unpleasantness. That said, the impact of a letter, was clear to him, and to me.

    I am also in the habit of writing hand written thank you's to customers and prospects. It is so different that it gets notice, and it does not take much longer than an email thank you. It's definately time well spent.
  • Vivek: Yes, exactly what I meant in the penultimate paragraph - smart companies/ brands will realize that it'd be beneficial and cost effective to get people onto a platform that seems the easiest...to create a communication channel between them and customers. Twitter fills that void really well, plus it is a one-to-many medium, so brands can use that viral effect and visibility to their advantage, if they are intelligent.
  • Sriram: I, personally, do not recall writing a letter in the past one year. My handwriting goes awry these days when I write even a few words. And to think I had a fantastic handwriting...! Need to get my son to write more and not lose touch...
  • Sahil: Great - let me know if it worked. Even if it worked with one, I'd say it was worth it!
  • Meera: On one hand, social networks/ media enhance your connections base - you get an opportunity to connect with someone in say, US or Europe, but at the same time it also results in too many connections. So the quality time that a person can afford on a few goes for a toss - it is now a small window of attention to many connections.
  • Vivek
    I think Twitter works in the US for redressal/complaints. I have tweeted when my Internet stopped working or when I was asked to wait for two months for employee discount to appear on my cellphone bill. In both cases, the companies had reps on twitter who immediately contacted me and resolved the issue. I think Twitter has replaced email/phone customer service !!!
  • Sriram Iyer
    I am afraid if kids of the next 10 years, would ever know the tradition of writing letters.
  • Loved it! Its inspired me to send letters to 3 companies that i am battling and ranting about on my blog!

    SM worked in case of one, but it was SM only that caused them more harm.

    I have sent letters to all 3 just now :)
  • Meera
    The internet is making the world smaller and more impersonal. It totally stresses me out at times. It's tough for me to be absconding. There are 20 ways to reach me, especially when I dont want to be reached!!! If I havent taken a friend's call for some reason, I cant update my facebook status else the friend will know I'm alive. Its so tough to just be! And the irony is these social networking communities fill in the void of the "real" communities that are missing in life. Lifes a total Catch 22!! Sigh.
  • Karthik S
    Actually, people were nicer in the pre-SM era, since there was a limited universe of things worth addressing. Now, it has all exploded and ADD has taken over - so less nicer :-)
  • Nice.
    When in class III, I had sent a letter to Home Lites matches as it used to spark in a really awkward fashion whenever 'scratched' on the pad(whatever that is called.) No, they did not respond. I still remember the Ballard Estate bit from their address.
    Then, dad had sent letters to Vimal when the shop from where refused to replace a defective piece. Vimal did reply and replace. :)

    On letter writings and being responsive, I would have mailed many embassies for tourist brochures in a pre-pre-Internet era, so that my Social Studies projects could look awesome. And they did, thanks to nice people in those embassies.

    Suggestions to Maggi club, Candico club , getting autographs of India XI during a world cup(via some Eveready 'contest')....so many nice companies and people even in the pre-SM era.
    -Nikhil
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